God how I love Nelly. She's beautiful, clever, talented and one of the most diverse singer-songwriters in the world today. "Try" is one of my favorite Nelly Furtado songs. It's such a honest and heartfelt message that the grass isn't greener on the other side, and that perfection is something that doesn't exist at all, despite our desire for it. As Nelly says in the song, "The fewer the seeds, the more I sow." We're all guilty of it, and we all need reminding that the perfect life is just an illusion. More often than not we're already happy, we just can't see it.